May 26 • May 27 • May 28
twenty twenty seven
You are invited
With great joy, we invite you to join us as we begin our next chapter together.
Until The Big Day
Paris has always held a special place in our hearts. Cody first fell in love with France during a high school French Club trip, while Jordan discovered its beauty years later while studying abroad. For Jordan's 30th birthday, Cody surprised him with a Christmas trip to Paris, giving us the chance to experience the city together for the very first time.
Since then, France has become much more than a destination to us. We love the slower pace of life, the belief that meals should be lingered over, and the way art seems to exist around every corner. Cody is endlessly inspired by the timeless architecture, while Jordan loves the grandeur of it all; how every street feels like a postcard. We admire the unapologetic passion of the French people, from their devotion to culture to the way they fiercely stand up for what they believe in.
Some of our favorite memories have come from wandering with no itinerary, discovering little cafés, and getting wonderfully lost together. Our love for French craftsmanship and timeless design even inspired us to choose Cartier rings, a small piece of France that we carry with us every day.
So when it came time to choose where we would begin this next chapter, the answer felt obvious. We couldn't imagine a more meaningful place to gather the people we love most and celebrate our marriage than in a country that has given us so much joy and continues to inspire us every time we return.
With love,
CODY & JORDAN
The Start, 2019
Cody and Jordan met on a dating app, with a classic story of playing hard to get. Their first date was a Taco Tuesday at Miguelitos in Tampa, and between easy conversation, plenty of laughs, and endless chips and salsa it quickly became clear there was something special there.
The Real Deal, 2020
As things became more serious and our lives became more intertwined, it was finally time for the fur babies to meet. Toby and Lemon were introduced and quickly became frenemies. Not long after, COVID changed the world and, after countless trips between Cody's apartment and Jordan's house, Cody officially moved in. Together, the four of us made the best of quarantine with TikTok dances, internet recipes, DIY haircuts, plenty of laughs, and what would become one of our favorite chapters together.
The Home, 2021
After many months of quarantine boredom, Jordan decided it was time for a project, and the full home renovation began. A nail through the foot, grout in the eye, an insurance claim, and one very dirty cat and dog later, they somehow survived the chaos. Along the way, they learned how to tackle challenges as a team, building not only a home together, but an even stronger relationship.
The Growth, 2023
Cody and Jordan continued to grow together, supporting each other as they progressed in their careers and sharing a love of Halloween, hosting friends and family, and traveling the world.
The Proposal, 2025
On June 19, 2025, Cody and Jordan returned to one of their favorite places, Panama, where Jordan got down on one knee and asked Cody to spend forever together. The answer was an easy yes. Not wanting Jordan to miss out on a proposal of his own, Cody later planned a trip to Mexico City and surprised him with a matching Trinity ring, giving them both a moment they would never forget.
The Next Chapter, 2027
And now, our greatest adventure begins. We cannot wait to celebrate with the people we love most as we say I do in France.
Welcome Garden Party
Wednesday, May 26th
Evening
Ceremony · Cocktail · Dinner · Reception
Thursday, May 27th
Evening
Farwell Brunch
Friday, May 28th
Late Morning
Let's be honest…you don't get invited to a gay wedding in a French Château every day. Consider this your permission to show up, show out, dress with a little extra flair, and savor every moment.
For our welcome evening, think tailored linen, loafers, and playful patterns.
Easy, elegant, effortless is the spirit of the night.
For our wedding day, think black tie through a fashion lens. We encourage bold elegance,
rich textures, statement details, and a touch of glamour worthy of the spotlight.
Remember, there's no bride to upstage.
Traditional black tie is welcome, though we kindly ask that guests avoid fluorescent colors.
The story of Château d'Aveny begins nearly a thousand years ago, on the foundations of an 11th century fortified manor. Over the centuries, the estate passed through the hands of some of France's most distinguished noble families, including the influential House of Broglie, whose lineage would later produce military leaders, statesmen, and even a Nobel Prize winner.
In 1778, the de Fayet family acquired the estate and transformed it into the elegant château we know today, restoring the residence, redesigning the park, and creating the romantic setting that still enchants visitors centuries later. In 1800, one of the château's earliest recorded weddings was celebrated here, beginning a tradition of love stories that continues to this day.
Today, Château d'Aveny stands as a beautifully preserved piece of French history; a place where nobility once gathered, generations have celebrated, and where, for a few unforgettable days, our own story becomes part of its legacy.
Set within six hectares of parkland, the grounds of Château d'Aveny feel like a French painting come to life. Tree-lined paths, centuries-old trees, and tranquil fountains invite guests to slow down, wander, and get delightfully lost. It was this sense of effortless beauty and serenity that made us fall in love with the château from the very first moment.
Beyond the château's historic salons, the estate offers beautifully renovated bedrooms, a charming orangery, and private townhouses tucked behind the main residence. Thoughtfully updated with modern comforts while preserving their French character, the accommodations offer the perfect blend of old-world elegance with contemporary European comforts.
There are many options for getting from the US to Paris, France. Paris' largest airport is CDG (Paris Charles de Gaulle Airport), while ORY (Paris Orly Airport) primarily serves domestic and European flights.
From the US, you can also fly into multiple Western European hubs and connect to Paris by regional flight or train. One of the most popular and often most cost-effective options is flying direct to London (LHR or LGW), then taking the Eurostar Chunnel train to Paris or connecting onward by air.
Once in France, there are a few ways to get to Château d'Aveny:
All guests are requested to stay on site at Château d'Aveny. The château and its grounds comfortably accommodate all of our guests, with over 35 modern rooms spread throughout the Château, The Orangerie, and its surrounding buildings.
Château d'Aveny: 1 rue Pavée 27630 Vexin sur Epte, France
Guests may check in beginning at 4 pm on Wednesday, May 26th. Room checkout will take place on Friday, May 28th, by 11 am, with all guests departing the château grounds by 3 pm.
All events will be held on the château grounds, so transportation between events is not something you'll need to worry about. You'll simply need to arrange transportation to and from the château itself.
We have created a go-to guide of things to do in the area. You'll find activities offered by the château, charming nearby towns to explore, other châteaux in the region to tour, a nearby golf course, and, of course, the world-famous Monet Gardens, located less than 20 minutes away in Giverny.
Please refer to your invitation for guest details. Our guest list was meticulously selected, and every bed on the grounds has been carefully considered. Space is very limited, so we kindly ask that only invited guests attend to ensure a comfortable and intimate celebration for everyone.
Outside of our nieces and nephews, this is an adults-only celebration. We appreciate your understanding and look forward to celebrating with you.
Of course, it's a gay wedding in a castle in France! Our Garden Party and Wedding each have their own dress code. Please refer to theDress Code section of our website for specifics and examples.
To avoid flight issues and logistical concerns, we ask that everyone arrive in the area with enough time to check in to the château on Wednesday, May 26th. Most guests are arriving one to two days prior. There are numerous towns in the region to explore, including Paris, of course!
No. While there are restaurants in the adjacent towns, which can be found in our Things to Do Guide, your booking is all-inclusive and includes meals, snacks, coffee, and drinks outside of the dedicated wedding events.
Yes, the château has a large car park to accommodate everyone's vehicles at no cost. Some guests staying in accommodations on the grounds will be able to park directly in front of their lodging. More information will be provided closer to the wedding, but yes, there is ample parking available.
Yes. All guests traveling to France and the rest of Europe will need a passport that remains valid for at least six months beyond their travel dates. For example, if you plan to travel in May 2027, your passport must be valid through at least December 2027.
If you plan to visit other countries before or after the wedding, we recommend checking that country’s passport validity requirements, as well as any applicable visa or travel authorization requirements.